自覚に対する常態行動心理学的解釈♪

本日のテーマは『自覚に対する常態行動心理学的解釈』 良く『自覚が足りない』とか『自覚を持ちなさい』と相手を叱責する場面に遭遇したりそれを言われた人から御相談を受けます。 『自覚を持てない』と。 されど私はその方々に申し上げます。 『それは当たり前です。自覚は持つべき物ではなく与えられる物です。』と。 相手は最初きょとんとした顔をしています。 何故『自覚は持つべき物ではなく与えられる物』なのかを理解できないからです。 それは『自覚』が己からは見えない物だからです。 『自覚』とは『自らを目覚めさせる』と書きます。 されど『己自身が自らを目覚めさせる』とはありません。 『自らを目覚めさせる』為には『自らを見つめる視点』を持たねばなりませんが生憎自分自身からは『己を見つめる視点』は得られません。 物理的に考えても『己を見つめる』為には鏡と言う存在が必要不可欠です。 鏡と言うアイテムなしに己を己自身が見つめる事は出来ません。 されど他者は違います。 他者は鏡を使わずとも相手を見れます。 故に『自らを目覚めさせる』事が出来るのです。 そうご説明を差し上げたらとても得心されました。 それからは『自覚』をもてるようになり『迷いの迷路』から脱する事が出来たようです。 大切な事は『正しい自覚を与えてくれる鏡を持つ事』です。 その為には己の持つ自己の多面性を知る事は必須条件となります。 己の持つ自己の多面性を深く知る事は鏡が鏡としてきちんと機能しているかどうかを様々な角度から見る事で確かめられるからです。 本当に自覚を持ちたいならば正しい鏡を持ち己の持つ自己の多面性を知る事だと考えます。 Today's theme is subject to the consultation from people well " awareness is not enough ," was told it or encounter to the scene to reprimand the opponent Toka and " Have awareness ," " normal behavioral psychological interpretation of consciousness " As " not have the awareness ." Saredo I would to the people . "It is natural . Awareness is given thing rather than a must have . "Said . Opponent has the first blank look and face . This is because not understand why " awareness thing is given rather than ones should have " are. It is because those " awareness " is that it is not visible from yourself . And " awareness " You write that " awaken themselves " . Saredo It is not the " treasury itself awaken themselves " . From in order to " themselves to awaken " is , but you will I must have a " point of view that stare at themselves " Unfortunately themselves " perspective that stare at yourself " is not obtained . Even thought physically in order to " stare at yourself " is essential there to say mirror . Yourself the you can not have his own own gaze without items say mirror . Saredo others are different . Others will look at the opponent even without a mirror . Therefore I " awaken themselves " it is possible. It has been very convinced Once give your description so . From it seems to be able to escape from the now Moteru the " awareness ", " Lost maze " . It important is " that you have a mirror that gives the correct awareness " . Therefore in knowing the self of multifaceted nature of his own will be required conditions . Knowing deeply self multifaceted nature of his own is because be verified by looking at the whether the mirror is working properly as a mirror from a variety of angles . Has a really correct mirror If you want to have the awareness to Think knowing the self of multifaceted nature of his own .